Lily’s Dance Recital

Lily has been taking a dance class on Saturdays. I had no idea that she would get much out of it, but it turns out she likes it. A lot. As a matter of fact, we’re signing her up again in the Fall. This past weekend, her school put together and entire weekend of performances from each of their classes from both schools. Lily’s class performed a group dance on Sunday afternoon.

Afterwards, we  all went to a local Applebee’s for dinner. Applebee’s was…. well, it was Applebee’s. It was good enough. I gotta say though, she did very well out there dancing. She was so happy afterwards too. I have good kids. I don’t appreciate them enough.

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The 2012 Bike MS Coast the Coast ride

Just arrived at Monmouth University

Just arrived at Monmouth University

With little time to fundraise or have many practice rides, the big Bike MS event was approaching on Saturday, May 19th. I registered late, because I didn’t know if my tailbone could handle the pressure. I rode a total of two training rides in the past two months (neither more than 25-35 miles.) I didn’t have time to get my bike checked out before Saturday. I didn’t buy a replacement portable bicycle tire pump after the kids broke mine.

I had a lot of things going against me coming into the ride. An eventful day, to be sure.

The day started off a little hectic. I had planned to be ready, bike loaded up, and on the road by 6am. The site was about 50 mins away, started at 7am, and group photos sometime between 7-8am. My wife woke me up after I snoozed my alarm, sometime after 6am. Thankfully, I knew where most of my stuff was, and had laid most of it out the night before. I quickly dressed, got the rest of my stuff together, loaded everything up, and was on the road by 6:20am.

I arrived around 7am, and many people were just getting there. I parked, went inside the gym to the registration / sign-in tables, and met some of the team. After that, I had to get y rider number pinned to my bike and he back of my jersey, eat some breakfast, group photo, and get to the starting line.

The ride started at 8am after the national anthem and various opening ceremony speeches. The rest of the team was way up in the front, and I was somewhere in the middle. After we all started, I tried to catch up with them, but couldn’t find them. I resigned myself to riding solo for the entire 85 miles, and maybe finding another lonely soul on the road and riding together.

At the starting line

At the starting line

I did ride with various people at different stages of the ride, passing time by making conversation, including two people (one being from Team CentraState I met sometime on the ride last year, now riding with a close newbie friend of hers.) I rode with these two women for a good 30 miles, but the newbie was unfortunately ill-prepared for riding 85 miles. Not much experience, recent injuries. I advised her to not push herself for a charity ride. I ended up getting ahead and unfortunately losing both of them somewhere south of Lavallet, NJ. Overall, I met up and made conversations with different people over the course of the day. Including some people that I met around mile 73 that I also met last year in the same area. Funny. In the end, I hooked up (not like that) with a nice woman named Jessie from Illinois, and we rode together the rest of the ride.

As the miles progressed, my body was feeling new aches and pains, much like last year. It’s no so much an issue of lack of energy thing, because there is plenty of food and drinks. Instead, it’s the body itself struggling to assume the same position. As the day wore on, I felt the tiredness in my thighs, some knee pain, and some severe aching in my lower back, my wrist, my shoulder, and my neck. It’s a lot of work.

Jessie and I debated doing the 15 mile “Power Loop” to make it a full century ride. We arrived at the Pinelands school around 4pm. We gave our butts a short break, I signed up for the last bus leaving at 6pm, and we figured we could do the 15 miles in an hour if we kept a good pace.

Oh man, that was a long ride. In the 2nd half, we saw no other riders, and the clock ticked closer and closer to 6pm. Towards the end, we agreed to separate, and I would need to dig deep, power ahead, and try to get back to the school. By 5:50, I was panicking in no uncertain terms that I was going to miss the bus. I raced ahead with what little energy I had, and arrived at the school exactly at 6pm.

I rushed straight to the bus, jumped off the bike onto wobbly legs, and told them who I was. The bus was still there, but they had been looking for me. Call it luck or divine intervention, but I made it. Sheer exhaustion.

 

         
         

 

After the bus ride back to Monmouth University, I loaded up my bike, hit the porta-potty, and drove home. I was glad we had no further plans to go anywhere that night, because yeah, I was exhausted. After we got the kids to bed, my wife and I curled up on the couch to watch some Stanley Tucci / Tony Shalhoub movie on Netflix. I nodded off sometime later.

So final thoughts?

  • It was a good ride overall. Well supported, fantastically nice weather
  • Despite being on a team, I didn’t have any consistent company on the ride. I tried to catch up with the rest of the team early on, but they zoomed ahead. I’m a solo rider, so it’s not the worst thing that could happen.
  • Although I had misgivings about what more I could take, I almost missed my bus, and I’m still aching badly a day later, I’m still pretty impressed and proud that I rode 100 miles in one day. I wanted to do it last year, but it was too much. I needed that other rider, Jessie, to encourage us both, but we did it.

I have to decide if I want to do the ride again next year, or work on another charity.

A picture of me after 85 miles, and before heading off to do another 15 miles

A picture of me after 85 miles, and before heading off to do another 15 miles. My body has almost given up at this point.

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Date Night in New Brunswick

I loves me a good date night. It’s not easy to get one scheduled, because you need someone to watch the kids. We hired a babysitter to watch the kids to tonight.

Namita’s office scheduled a company outing of sorts for dinner and a show for employees and significant others. It was dinner at The Stress Factory, followed by the 8:30pm show, all in New Brunswick. Once the babysitter got to our house, I gave some instructions, ordered pizza, and then I was off to New Brunswick to meet everyone and have dinner.

I’d never been to the Stress Factory before. The food was okay, and I made conversation with some folks. The show started with a short set by the host/owner? Vinnie Brand. After that, comedian Mark Normand came to the stage to open, and I thought he was pretty good. Finally, the headliner for tonight, Amy Schumer, came up. She was interesting. She was raunchy, she was blunt, and she was interesting. Most of the people at our table were laughing. Most. I guess you can’t pleas everyone.

Our digital camera was dead, and the charger could not be found. We could have gotten a photo with both Normand and Schumer, but my wife wasn’t interested (it was getting late.) I hate when we don’t get a chance to document this kind of event. Big date night, dinner, drinks, comedy, and no camera.

Sigh.

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National MS Society writes about Team CentraState

2011 Team CentraState group photo

2011 Team CentraState group photo

Check it out! The National MS Society published a small writeup about Team CentraState and our participation in the NJ “Coast the Coast” charity rides. Interestingly enough, they attached a small-sized version of last year’s group photo. I attempted to get a copy of it, but the photographer told me it was lost. Why do they have a small low-res version though? Bizarre.

http://staging1.nationalmssociety.org/chapters/njm/chapter-news/chapter-news-detail/index.aspx?nid=6396

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Now witness the firepower of this fully ARMED and OPERATIONAL home office!

My new Dell 2412s have arrived

My new Dell 2412s have arrived. Let the unboxing begin!

Bask in its glory, why don’t you? Go ahead, I’ll wait. It’s glorious, isn’t it?

A little background history: In 2003, I started to long for a better desk. I had this crappy OfficeMax desk, but it was neither wide enough nor long enough to accomodate what I wanted to do. Seriously, 2003. I had my eye on this IKEA Yerker desk that he rroommate had. It wasn’t perfect, but it was interesting. However, I didn’t pull the trigger. The hunt continued. Late last year, I found the Vika Amon build-your-own-table model at IKEA, and I was intrigued. A simple large, wide table, customizable, with legs of your choosing, at a reasonable price? That’s all I’m looking for. This week, we got it. So far, very spacious, with room for docking both devices and cats.

In addition, I started thinking about getting a widescreen HD LCD monitor for the office. While I liked my 19″ Dell LCD was so much more compact compared to my old CRT, 19″ monitors are so 2005. I wanted big. Late last year, I started considering the benefits of two monitors. Dual desktop screens, working on one, watching tv and movies on the other. True multitasking. It took a few more months, but my wife bought them for my birthday. I set up them tonight, and they’re just fantastic. Two 24″ Dell U2412 HD monitors.

You can weep now.

Not quite done yet, though. Next on the list is a wireless keyboard, wireless mouse, and an HD webcam. I’ve narrowed all three down to specific Logitech products, but I’ll need to space those purchases out this year.

My almost-revamped home office

My almost-revamped home office

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The Avengers (2012)

The wait is finally over — Marvel’s summer blockbuster superhero ensemble film The Avengers was finally here. Years in the making, nerds and geeks like me have waited with anticipation for this film to come out, hoping for it to be good. Who doesn’t love the Marvel characters? Although it wasn’t easy, we watched the early Marvel films about these particular superheros (I’m temporarily ignoring Spiderman, Daredevil, Punisher, X-Men, etc.)

  • We endured Ang Lee’s 2003 snoozefest of a film, Hulk, and kinds got what we wanted in the 2008 film The Incredible Hulk starring Ed Norton. [My original reviews here and here.]
  • We were awestruck by how awesome the first Iron Man was, and yet disappointed by how lousy Iron Man 2 turned out to be. [My original reviews here and here.]
  • We enjoyed the good aspects of the 2011 Kenneth Branagh Thor film, and tried to look past the slightly dull scenes on Earth. BTW, wasn’t Asgard interesting? [My original review here.]
  • We really enjoyed getting to know the interpretation of Captain America by actor Chris Evans and director Joe Johnston. [My original review here.]

I’m sure everyone knows the basic premise of this film. Nick Fury of S.H.I.E.L.D. brings together a team of super humans to form The Avengers to help save the Earth from Loki and his army. So was it good? YES, but first, a little background information.

As usual, Saturday May 5th included many activities before we could get to Saturday evening.

  1. Josh and I had a soccer game at 10am that turned into a 5-0 beatdown of our team. Ah well, you can’t win ’em all.
  2. Simultaneously, Nums took Lily to her dance class.
  3. Next, we raced home to pick up the girls and head over to Lawrenceville to hit a comic book store for Free Comic Book Day. Josh, Lily, and I each picked out 2-3 comics to take home. I also bought them an Avengers one, so I hope they appreciate it. We then had some pizza at a nearby pizza place.
  4. Lily’s game was luckily cancelled, so we had some free time. I gave Lily a shower in the afternoon.
  5. I took Josh to his swim class at 4pm.

Now this is where it gets tricky. The movie was playing at 6:30 pm at a nice theater in South Brunswick, and was bound to be packed on a Saturday evening. Doug, Kathy, and Mike were to meet us for the movie. We bought our four tickets, and Mike bought the other tickets. Mike was to get to the theater early to reserve seats for the seven of us. Luckily, the Ipes worked like clockwork to get Josh back from swim class, get him showered and cleaned up, and we were all out the door miraculously by 5:20 pm. We met up with everyone at the theater, waited in the lobby for the crew to clean up the theater, and then they let us in. We got great seats in the middle, and we all sat together.

So, yeah, the movie was actually very good. I was honestly worried that it would be horrible, as I thought Iron Man 2 was frankly a mess. Thankfully, this movie was a whole lot more fun. Lots of great dialogue, a good story, and plenty of action to keep the story in overdrive. As a matter of fact, my wife gets bored by action films and scenes, and she enjoyed the film. Now that’s a ringing endorsement if you ask me. The film is rated PG-13, but if your kids were okay with the earlier Marvel films, you’ll be fine with the action and violence in this film. How did I know if the film would be okay for Joshua and Lily? Duh, I checked out the Wired GeekDad review 10 Things Parents Should Know About The Avengers (Spoiler-Free), duh.

Afterwards, I had plans that we would walk over to the nearby Buffalo Wild Wings, but on account that it was Cinco de Mayo, the place was packed. We ended up not waiting and ditching BWW, and walking instead to Longhorn Steakhouse. I’ve not had good experiences at Longhorn, but we were a little desperate with 7 hungry people (including two kids) at 9:30 pm. Thankfully, the wait wasn’t longer than 20 mins, and we were seats. The food turned out to be pretty decent, so that was a plus.

I hope this film is out on Blu-ray in a few months — I definitely will pre-order it. Great movie, go see it.

The Avengers (2012)

The Avengers (2012)

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We enrolled Josh in a swimming class

Last year, we wanted Josh to learn how to swim. Last summer, we signed him up for some swimming lessons / course at summer camp. Unfortunately, it was more of a weekly session where the camp counselors take the kids to a pool, and just whatever happens. The kids who can swim go swimming, and the kids who don’t know how to swim stand along the edges in the pool. There was no actual instruction, so that was frustrating to us. This year, my wife thankfully pushed us to find some money and register Joshua for personalized swimming classes. Every Saturday(and by every Saturday, I mean twice now), we take him to a nearby hotel that has a swimming pool. I’m a little unclear on the arrangement, but apparently the swim club organization rents out usage of the pool, and they have a slate of kids come in for individualized swimming classes on Saturdays. For 30 minutes, Josh gets individualized attention to teach him how to swim.

I hope everything works out, and he becomes the first Ipe to learn how to swim. We’re signing up Lily for individualized swimming lessons in a different program sometime in June. If the kids learn, then hey, maybe the grownups will take some swimming classes next year too.

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Halfway through the Spring soccer season

We’re halfway through the soccer season, and Lily, Josh, and I have had a lot of weekend games and weeknight soccer practices since March 31st when we started the season. The kids play both Saturday and Sundays, and practices mid-week. So what’s my take so far?

Lily played last Fall, and she’s still in the Tiny Tots program. She still enjoys talking to her friends more than playing, but I’ve seen her run and get into the game. She also likes to make sure we’ve seen her doing something good. I hope she likes it, and I think she does. I hope she’ll play again next season.

Josh has attended almost every game on his team, and he’s certainly learning and improving each week. We have clinics (run by an outside firm) that teach the kids that show up various technical skills mid-week. I run my own weekly practice for my team mid-week to go over problem areas (or “areas of improvement”) that I see during games. Saturdays and Sundays are game days.

Coaching youth soccer is both the same and different than what I expected. I expected coaching games would be difficult, but it’s not actually. With so much stimuli (both teams of players, the ref, the parents), there’s really not much for me to do or say. I try not to yell too many instructions from the sidelines. Frankly, they can’t hear me very much anyway. I mostly just try to manage the subbing of players and giving advice to these K-2 boys to spread out, work together, etc. So, coaching actual games is much easier than I thought it would be.

Coaching the practices? A whole other ballgame. I spend a lot of time thinking and researching what kinds of drills (in for the form of mini games) to run every week. I have to watch and figure out during the weekend games which boys need work in various areas. From there, I use a variety of drills found on online coaching resources to instill various skills and techniques. At this age, it’s purely recreation soccer. There’s no real tallying of scores, no championship trophy. The idea is to get the boys and girls playing and touching the ball. I want the boys on my team to play smart, enjoy it, and have fun. I also want them to win games through their hard effort.

I actually kinda like soccer, in a small way. Cycling (watching and doing it) and (watching) basketball are still my favorites, but I’ve watched at least one Red Bulls game on television with Josh so far. It’s not bad.

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Lily enjoys her Saturday dance classes

Every Saturday morning before all the hustle and bustle begins, Nums takes Lily to her dance class. It’s an introductory program to teach elementary aspects of the foundations of dance such as positions, body placement, skipping, and balance  . From what I’ve seen, each class is comprised of Ballet, Tap, Jazz, etc. So does Lily like this class? No, she loves it. She gets dressed up in her leotard, tights, and I think a tutu, and they go off to dance class. I’ve taken her a few times, and I’ve watched occasionally through the little viewing window. She’s actually having a good time dancing

I’m happy for her. I’m glad she likes it.

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Checkpoint — what’s going on in my life?

Time to take a break and reassess. What’s going on in my life? It’s so hectic, with many moving parts. Running from here to there, jobs incomplete. Where to begin?

Life has been busy with all of the kids’ extracurricular activities:

  • Lily has dance class every Saturday morning.
  • Both have soccer games on the weekends (most Saturdays and Sundays.)
  • Thy have soccer practices on at least 1-2 weeknights/week, so we take them there too. Josh has two practices.
  • Since I’m coaching, I’m at obviously at every practice, but also developing drills and trying to instill skills in these boys. Two weeknights a week, I’m changing into workout clothes at the office, then rushing to catch a train, and make it to the practice field before the parents do.
  • We recently enrolled Josh in an swimming class run by a swim club in the area. They offer individualized swim instruction on a weekly basis.

My wife and I have been busy with work. I won’t go into all the details, but we’re running around a lot these days to keep this well-oiled machine running. In my next series of entries, I’ll go into more details about each item.

Stay tuned. Same Bat time, same Bat channel.

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