Michael Clayton (2007)

After more than a month, I finally watched Michael Clayton, a 2007 movie starring some great actors — George Clooney,Tom Wilkinson, Tilda Swinton, and Sydney Pollack.  The movie was a little slow, but interesting camera direction by the director, and excellent performances by the cast.  You can figure out the story at an early juncture in the movie, but it was still good. As a matter of fact, Tilda Swinton won for Best Performance by an Actress in a Supporting Role at the 2008 Academy Awards.

Michael Clayton (2007)

Michael Clayton (2007)

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Catching up in 10/2008

I’ve uploaded a slew of September 2008 photos, and you will also soon see new photos for October 2008 from Julie & Robbie’s housewarming (coming soon, keep checking.)  New September photos include Sai and Karthik’s chaat party, random family shots, and our anniversary dinner.

This morning, we did some driving around Central Jersey, buying clothes for the kids — they’re quicky growing out of their current wardrobe. We had a nice lunch together at a McDonald’s in Bridgewater, believe it or not.  Strange as it may sound, we all sat together, ate lunch, and felt no pressure to hurry off to the next task.  You could almost call it “quality family time.”

In the evening, we went to the aforementioned housewarming at my sister’s place.

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A reunion among friends in Congers

I’ve mentioned that I joined Facebook a few months ago.  Similar to Friendster, but there’s more interaction and activity on a daily basis.  I’ll tell you the best part.  I’ve been using it to get in touch with my elementary school friends and classmates from over 20 years ago.  Turns out, a number of them in Rockland still get together every month or so.  This past Friday, I drove the 90 mins to meet up with some of them.

I found it to be an amazing experience.  Back then, not everyone got along all the time, and we all had our circles of friends, but you all knew each other over the years, since there were basically only two classes per grade.  Seeing these folks 20 years later, all the cliques and growing-up-awkwardness was over, and we simply enjoyed each other’s company, with some reminiscing, and catching up.  Someone does graphic design, someone is in the film industry special effects world, another does work with youth for the county.

We met up at Rick’s Club American restaurant and bar, which I’ve always wanted to go to, but we never did in the 20 years we lived in Congers.  Close to closing, some of us drove down to Nyack to the Black Bear Saloon, to meet some more folks.  By the time I got home, it was 5:30am.

Thanks to Pete and Shalimar for arranging.  Let me know the next time we’re getting together.

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Saturday Night Live: VP Debate Open – Palin / Biden

When I grow up, I want to be a maverick. BTW, I had looked forward to the VP debate, but I got bored about 30 minutes into it. It was less debate, and more “Let me ignore the questions and facts, and just spout campaign points for 2 hours.”

Saturday Night Live was much more interesting, and in only 11 minutes. Thank you, Lorne Michaels.

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Saturday Night Live: Couric/Palin Intervew

I forgot to post this last week.  The following is a portion of an article from Irish Times, followed by the SNL sketch mocking the interview. Enjoy!

Katie Couric is an anchor with CBS News who did a lengthy interview with Palin that has since been parodied to devastating effect on Saturday Night Live by two comedians, Tina Fey (as Palin) Amy Poehler (as Couric).

In the real interview, Couric asks Palin whether it would be better to spend the $700 billion Wall Street bailout helping families cope with rising household bills, instead of giving to irresponsible bankers.

Palin answers: “That’s why I say I, like every American I’m speaking with, we’re ill about this position that we have been put in where it is the taxpayers looking to bail out. But ultimately, what the bailout does is help those who are concerned about the healthcare reform that is needed to help shore up our economy, helping the – it’s got to be all about job creation, too, shoring up our economy and putting it back on the right track.”

“So healthcare reform and reducing taxes and reining in spending has got to accompany tax reductions and tax relief for Americans. And trade, we’ve got to see trade as opportunity, not as a competitive, scary thing. But one in five jobs being created in the trade sector today, we’ve got to look at that as more opportunity. All those things under the umbrella of job creation. This bailout is a part of that.”

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Supertramp – The Logical Song (1979)

When I was young, it seemed that life was so wonderful,
A miracle, oh it was beautiful, magical.
And all the birds in the trees, well they’d be singing so happily,
Joyfully, playfully watching me.
But then they send me away to teach me how to be sensible,
Logical, responsible, practical.
And they showed me a world where I could be so dependable,
Clinical, intellectual, cynical.

There are times when all the worlds asleep,
The questions run too deep
For such a simple man.
Won’t you please, please tell me what we’ve learned
I know it sounds absurd
But please tell me who I am.

Now watch what you say or they’ll be calling you a radical,
Liberal, fanatical, criminal.
Won’t you sign up your name, we’d like to feel you’re
Acceptable, respectable, presentable, a vegetable!

At night, when all the worlds asleep,
The questions run so deep
For such a simple man.
Won’t you please, please tell me what we’ve learned
I know it sounds absurd
But please tell me who I am.

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5 year anniversary since being joined at the hip

Saturday, Sept 27th marks our 5-year anniversary.  Pretty cool, eh?  Let’s take a quick look back on Sept 27 2003.  It sounds cliched, but 5 years has gone pretty fast.

I would’t say I didn’t have regrets, because that’s what happens in marriage.  You regret stupid arguments and such, but you live and learn together.  My wife and I have accomplished a lot.  We’re starting to get past the stupid arguments, apologizing faster, learning to live with each other.  We’ve got two wonderful kids, a home of our own, 1.5 working cars (oh my poor Honda!), good friends, and plenty of family memories that have brought us many smiles and laughter.

A few years ago, I took one of those online surveys on happiness, and the results came back that I was not happy.  I’m pleased to announce that while life is full of ups and downs, I’m pretty happy these days. I couldn’t have asked for a more wonderful woman to have joined at the hip. 🙂

Tomorrow night, we’re celebrating with dinner at Ruth’s Chris Steakhouse.  I don’t want anyone to think I’m too excited, but I’m getting the Cowboy ribeye steak for my entree, medium-well.

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2008 September photos published

In case you haven’t noticed, new photos from this month have been posted.

  • Sept 6, we went to Ethan’s birthday party — thanks for the invite, Pradeesh & Sona.
  • Some random shots of the kids.
  • Moblog is up-to-date.
  • Num’s uncle is visiting the States from Bangalore.  This past Saturday around lunchtime, we went to Makeda in New Brunswick for Ethiopian food.
  • On Saturday night, we drove to the city for a little Indian chaat party with friends, at Sayali & Karthik’s place.  [Photos forthcoming.]
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May you live in interesting times

How tumultuous the past week has been in the financial world.  Every day, folks at my office to discuss what company just made the news.  Storied investments firms where, in the past, either I wanted to join, or had turned job offers, are either gone, or are soon to be mere shadows of their former greatness.  Shocking, and yet these are the same firms who derided regulatory review by the government.  Greed is powerful.  Do you remember that Bush 1st term proposal to privatize Social Security?  In hindsight, thank goodness that idea died.  The brokerage firms would have been the only ones to benefit from that scheme.

[Short excerpt from a commentary by Chris Farrell, BusinessWeek]

In 1940, Fred Schwed Jr. famously captured the essence ….. with one of the most memorable Wall Street book titles ever: “Where Are the Customers’ Yachts?” It’s worth repeating the allegory that starts off his book:

Once in the dear dead days beyond recall, an out-of-town visitor was being shown the wonders of the New York financial district. When the party arrived at the Battery, one of his guides indicated some handsome ships riding at anchor.

He said, “Look, those are the bankers’ and brokers’ yachts.”

“Where are the customer yachts?” asked the naive visitor.

Indeed.  I’m still looking for my yacht.

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Listening to music again

It’s been almost a week with my Shure earphones.  They’ve taken some getting used to.  I didn’t think it would be possible to have the need to research how to use headphones, but I’ve been reading this past week.  I’ve tried them in different positions, sleeves, and techniques, but I’ve been struggling to be comfortable.  I used the smallest rubber sleeves initially, but switched to the smallest foam ones.  I’ve read that the best way to use the earphones is to pull you earlobes forward and out to straighten the ear canal, then insert earphones.

My earphones have arrived

My earphones have arrived

With some additional tweaking, I think I’m finally comfortable.  However, it has introduced another question: when is it worth it to listen to music?  Case in point: I’ll get all set up, start listening to music in the conference room, and then someone wants to talk to me.  I’ll scowl, take the earphones out, talk, then spend 2 mins getting set up again.  Then another question.

Still, I think I’m okay, as of this afternoon.  They do sound pretty good.  I think the best way to describe the benefit is how the music sounds clearer — it could even be described as “crisper.”  I did some work late Thursday night, and I found that I can listen to music on the absolute lowest audible volume setting in a quiet house.  Amazingly clear.  Check back with me in a couple of days.

Speaking of music, I read an article over the summer, How we learned to stop listening to music, by Steve Guttenberg.  It made me realize how I was not so much listening to music, as much as enjoying background noise with a beat. I may not be the only one out there.  So for a change of pace, I’m trying to actually listen to what is currently playing, not just have it playing in the background.  I’m enjoying it more.

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